Discover Us
Let’s really get to know each other
Twenty-one areas, answered on your own and revealed together, so you can understand each other better and love each other better.

Not a compatibility test.
Discover Us does not ask whether you are a match. There is no score, no percentage and no grade. Its question is simpler:
Let’s use what we learn to love each other well.
How it works
- Each of you answers an area on your own. Your partner cannot see your answers while you work.
- When you have both finished and you are both ready, you Reveal together.
- The result becomes part of your Couple Profile, with Scripture to explore and conversations worth having.
Personality and preference explain tendencies. They do not excuse sinful or harmful behavior, and they never rewrite what Scripture says.


Answered alone. Revealed together.
Two honest answers, side by side.
Neither of you sees the other’s answers while you work. When you have both finished an area and you are both ready, you Reveal together and see each answer side by side.
One of you may want to talk it through right away. The other may need time to think first. That is not a problem to fix. It is something to understand about each other, and a good place to start a conversation.
What it covers
Twenty-one areas of your life together.
Who I am
- Core Values
- How I’m Wired
- Communication Styles & Habits
- Conflict
- Love & Affection
- Emotional Responses
- Life Moments & Transitions
Trust, forgiveness & repair
- Trust
- Forgiveness
- Apology & Repair
Money, work & rest
- Money & Me
- Me Time & Rest
- Motivation & Ambition
- Travel & Experiences
Family & life together
- Parenting & Children
- Extended Family & In-Laws
- Friends & Social Life
- Partnership & Gender Roles
- The Life I Picture
- Boundaries, Convictions & Physical Connection
Faith
- Faith & Theology
Plus The Little Things I Love: small, real preferences in your own words, answered separately and revealed together.
Begin together.
Start with the Word, and take it into the life you are building together.